Hello peeps,
Just got back from Bali nightstop.
Seriously, in my own perogative............
all south east asia night stop are a waste of time.
Allowance is peanuts, not even enough to cover my to and fro cab fare.
Providing us with mere transport allowance when giving me so many turns and -$$$ flights dont help my CPF contribution.
Anyway, me and this Chief was chatting and we touch on the topic on
"Do you like kids".
he posted this question to me as we were having babies at the bulk head seat.
my answer was.............. ok lo...........
its a boring answer right.......... but i really feel they are ok lo as long they always portray the angelic side of them. All this are my OS in the heart.....
cuz my chief was chattering away......
well he feels that nowadays people are throwing their kid to their parent in laws, father and mother to take care of. He feels that they are irresponsible because if you are the one giving birth and wanted children, why must you throw the baton to someone else (be it ya relatives, maid or parents)...
in my heart was.......... ok you got your point but.......
He also feel that parents are getting older and why do their own kids want to repeat the cycle of them taking care of kids when they should be enjoying their retirement years. (Aircraft was not landing yet........ why!!! )
in my heart was........... ok you still got your point but..............
He feel that by earning money and upgrading materialistic stuff and neglecting the children is a very common sight nowadays. This are all his points.......... in a point of a Bachelor.
I feel that his point was taken, but there is always another side of a coin. This apply to life!
Not every married couple are like fairytale.
Not every husband are sweet like honey, hardworking as a bee.
Not every wife are sweet as candy.
there are always extreme or different case.....
the life of a married couple and how they handle stuff are not for outsider to judge but only for us to be a listener if needed.
every individual do not own another person a living, but if they choose to be as one it is a must to Share the responsibilities, ownership of the child, daily neccessities etc.
yes it is not easy, but if others are able to do so lets just bite on the teeth and constantly remind ourselves about the hard facts of life.
yes the child is born and most parents will want to provide the best for the child and the grandparents will also want their kids life to be easier.
I'm not trying to say throwing the kids to grandparents is a right thing to do.
Im just trying to state that be rational and look at the whole picture.
The whole picture is hard to paint if one is holding their strong personal belief.
Cheers..........
Just got back from Bali nightstop.
Seriously, in my own perogative............
all south east asia night stop are a waste of time.
Allowance is peanuts, not even enough to cover my to and fro cab fare.
Providing us with mere transport allowance when giving me so many turns and -$$$ flights dont help my CPF contribution.
Anyway, me and this Chief was chatting and we touch on the topic on
"Do you like kids".
he posted this question to me as we were having babies at the bulk head seat.
my answer was.............. ok lo...........
its a boring answer right.......... but i really feel they are ok lo as long they always portray the angelic side of them. All this are my OS in the heart.....
cuz my chief was chattering away......
well he feels that nowadays people are throwing their kid to their parent in laws, father and mother to take care of. He feels that they are irresponsible because if you are the one giving birth and wanted children, why must you throw the baton to someone else (be it ya relatives, maid or parents)...
in my heart was.......... ok you got your point but.......
He also feel that parents are getting older and why do their own kids want to repeat the cycle of them taking care of kids when they should be enjoying their retirement years. (Aircraft was not landing yet........ why!!! )
in my heart was........... ok you still got your point but..............
He feel that by earning money and upgrading materialistic stuff and neglecting the children is a very common sight nowadays. This are all his points.......... in a point of a Bachelor.
I feel that his point was taken, but there is always another side of a coin. This apply to life!
Not every married couple are like fairytale.
Not every husband are sweet like honey, hardworking as a bee.
Not every wife are sweet as candy.
there are always extreme or different case.....
the life of a married couple and how they handle stuff are not for outsider to judge but only for us to be a listener if needed.
every individual do not own another person a living, but if they choose to be as one it is a must to Share the responsibilities, ownership of the child, daily neccessities etc.
yes it is not easy, but if others are able to do so lets just bite on the teeth and constantly remind ourselves about the hard facts of life.
yes the child is born and most parents will want to provide the best for the child and the grandparents will also want their kids life to be easier.
I'm not trying to say throwing the kids to grandparents is a right thing to do.
Im just trying to state that be rational and look at the whole picture.
The whole picture is hard to paint if one is holding their strong personal belief.
Cheers..........
Just received my check for $500.
ReplyDeleteSometimes people don't believe me when I tell them about how much money you can earn filling out paid surveys online...
So I show them a video of myself actually getting paid over $500 for taking paid surveys to finally set the record straight.